The present study was conducted in order to investigate the construction of relationships in young deaf, identify in similarities and differences between the listener and deaf cultures. The importance of this study is due to the need to know and understand disuses that affect the lives of human beings and their ability to interact with themselves and with others, recognizing cultural features in the deaf community and the hearing community worked. It was a non-institutional empirical research, a qualitative approach, the tools used were the qualitative interview, self and partner experiences presented in hypothetical cases. Thrown results focused on language as a connector on building relationships in each community is given differently because their language (sign language should be deaf and oral language in the case of listeners). This represents a different culture, with its own characteristics, history and other representative aspects. The deaf and hearing have similarities with regard to the wishes they have when choosing a partner or not, now the idea is held to study but do not fall in love - in relation to the family and its influence is the same in these relationships was found to be the same in both communities and all the differences that may exist between the two are crossed by the language which everyone uses constantly, but ultimately hold similar when interacting with other features.