Adolescence represents a transition stage in which the relational patterns that may have an influence in adult life are stablished. Given the profound changes that happen in a physical, mental, and emotional level, it is usual to see the adolescent as an actor in crisis, and this is why the approach to the diverse situations that go through this period of life, can be done under the parameters of conflict. In here, it is sought to amplify this perspective, for what a close up to the existing processes in the configu ration of affective bonds is being done, and also are being observed the elements that intervene in the construction of loving relationships, considering the cultural changes in the stablished roles for women and men and how they have changed and reshaped couple’s relationships. The presented reflection it is based in documental revision of investigations and specialized texts.