By thinking communication as a process, as proposed by Jesus Martin Barbero, we approach the experience of meetings between women who were victims of the armed conflict in Colombia (members of the social movement Asociacion Caminos de Esperanza Madres de la Candelaria), and men who have assaulted women (members of Fundacion Aulas de Paz), in order to investigate the changes in people, the construction of subjectivities and the individual and collective incidence that made possible the conversations and activities performed since 2012 in the high-security Itagui-Antioquia prison. In order to record those experimentations and understand what happened for them as well as what they made happen later for different people in different moments and places, we treat conversation and dialogue as a path for converging folios 39, enero-junio 2018. Facultad de Comunicaciones, Universidad de Antioquia26and weaving fabrics of emotions and reason, as put by Humberto Maturana, in order to gather knowledge by situating ourselves, following Donna Haraway’s advices, and favoring reflection in which all participants are considered agents of a kind of comprehension that is collectively constructed.