Spanish Abstract: En Colombia, la desaparicion ha inscrito una violencia capaz de atacar no solo la vida, sino la existencia. Instaurando una logica de terror fantastico, el lugar de las victimas se desploma hacia un vacio de sentido que quiebra lo sensible y lo decible. No obstante, un acercamiento fenomenologico-hermeneutico a la experiencia de once familiares de desaparecidos en Colombia pone en duda el deseo totalizador de la violencia y revela que la introduccion del no-lugar no suspende la relacion con los ausentes. Mas bien, nuestros resultados sugieren que el desaparecido puede resonar, manifestarse en suenos o hacerse tela en el acto de tejer. Es en estos espacios de aparicion donde se articula una militancia en contra de la ausencia. English Abstract: Enforced disappearance in Colombia has recorded a type of violence capable of attacking not only life but existence as well. Establishing a logic of fantastic terror, the position of victims drops into a void of meaning that breaks what can be felt or said. However, a phenomenological-hermeneutical approach to the experience of eleven relatives of people disappeared in Colombia casts doubt on the total desire for violence and reveals that the introduction of the non-place does not withhold the relationship with those who are absent. Rather, our results suggest that the missing person may resound, manifest in dreams, or become the fabric for the act of weaving. It is in these spaces of appearance where activism against their absence is articulated.