This article describes the differences and similarities between the perceptions of love in pairs of young adults, middle adults and older adults, and love perception of solid love in each of these stages and also, to learn how to generate stability and permanence in a partner. The study included fifteen couples in Bogota, Colombia. A qualitative methodology and descriptive hermeneutics perspective was used. The inquiry concluded that couples conceive love with active features that manifest from the will and intelligence in acts such as: understanding, delivery, affection, good conflict management, communication and trust and with passive characteristics where what raw is the feelings and sensations.