The present investigation approached the social constructions of men and women from the city of Bogota achieve in relation to the subtle and invisible violence or micromachismos . In order to achieve this, a qualitative methodology with a social constructionism approach was used, and generative dialogues were carried out with four groups of people of ages between 18 and 96 years old from a medium-high socioeconomic sector. The researchers found that in Colombia the subtle, quotidian and invisible violence against women does not have a specific name, which contributes to the reproduction of subtle patriarchal practices that assists this and other types of violence against women. Besides, in every group there were participants that identified the presence of the different types of micromachismos in their lives and the impact they produce, despite the fact that most of the participants had not considered the micromachismos as a type of violence before the generative dialogue. In addition, some of the participants proposed several alternatives for the decrease of this type of violence, prevailing the importance of changing generational patriarchal patterns.