The purpose of the investigation is to identify and analyze the emotional, cognitive, relational and cultural difficulties that Colombian women must face among their divorce process and how change is evidenced with psychotherapeutic intervention with a systemic approach. To reach this goal, a qualitative methodology of investigation-intervention type was done with the participation of 3 divorced women. The results of the change generated in the patients in relation to the objective of the investigation were expressed in three phases. In conclusion, it was determinant in the intervention to reconstruct the identity of the women starting from their own resources and in a context of protection, security and confidence, so that they could regain their autonomy and could rethink their project of life.