This situations are so painful that they deserve nursing care based on support and help; for being able to confront it and support the critical situation: it includes informations, to keep them company special sensibility and how to help the child who has lost his/her mother, the nurse behavior as a model for the father or relative closest to the newborn and it explains to the valve that the link has as a support for the child future the newborn death and its significance for the parents and the proteccion the nurse must offer to the couple relationship; also when the newborn has a malformation or he/she has bornt with lightweight.