This paper aims at delving into the concept of violence, with the hypothesis that, just as the subject, violence is an effect of language. It is a psychoanalytical and theoretical exploration in order to approach the subjective construction of the ego and its anchoring to violence, a construction that determines the relationship with the other (counterpart) and with death, a construction that begins in the Other. Freudian notions such as drive, identification, and narcissism are considered in this development. Is also looks over family complexes, proposed by Lacan, to make a description of the construction that entails a restructuring in relation to the counterpart, the first emergence of violence in childhood and that determines the subject.